ONCUBA NEWS: I want to get married in Cuba

Walter Lippmann

I want to get married in Cuba

That there is a law that protects that right is an exercise in civilization, equality and respect for love.

Whether you put a name, the other or both ... Google will flood your screen with texts and images that bring these beings together, that speak of shared illusions, common experiences, joint projects and that show two very attached people, one always more smiling and outgoing than the other, although that other shines the joy through her dolls.


Rubén Darío Salazar and Zenén Calero have been a couple, in art and in love, for more than 30 years. And that union was already known in the Cuban artistic media long before Google and other Internet search engines existed.


The admirable couple trackers, that there are, —and also the homophobic ones— could easily find them since the late 1980s on the streets of the city of Matanzas. Zenén was since 1979 the theater designer of the Papalote group, one of the most prestigious Cuban theater companies for children. There, in 1987, the young actor Rubén Darío arrived. They met the din of the tables, the lights and the puppets.

It is Rubén who assures that Zenén as a child played to be what he is today as a designer. And indeed "under the bed I would do the stages and put the lights that I stole from the Christmas trees, with that I would do shows and even imagine the movements," says the designer.

As a child Zenén played at being a designer.


“I kept doing that job, but with an impasse , because I didn't know that it could be a profession. I was a country boy or rather a beach boy. He lived in Boca de Camarioca. First I went through mechanical engineering, then I was a professor of Spanish and Literature, until the theater appeared and everything else was left behind, because theatrical design is a career that takes life "

“He was a sailor boy and I was an urban boy”, Rubén had it clearer from very early on because, as he likes to say, he practically grew up in the Guiñol of Santiago de Cuba. His mother was a worker at the Santiago headquarters of the Cuban Institute of Radio and TV and the Union of Culture and it was practical for her to have the child taken care of in the theater room, while attending to his work obligations. “Then with my neighbors I would put on puppet shows, I would dress them with my mother's and my father's clothes, or with whatever I found, and I would write the texts. So I also directed as a child, and that continued in primary and secondary school. "

In Santiago de Cuba, Rubén at the age of 6.

The career of Journalism that Rubén Darío Salazar began at age 18 was quickly replaced by the possibility of restarting his university studies at the Higher Institute of Art, from where he graduated from the same course as two other giants of Cuban acting: Broselianda Hernández and Osvaldo Doimeadiós.

Then he arrived in Matanzas on a recommendation from the narrator Mayra Navarro. “She told me: ¨If you want to do good puppet theater, you have to go to Matanzas¨. He was saying it for Papalote, the group that Maestro René Fernández directed and that he still directs. And I didn't think twice. Matanzas has a connection with the people of Santiago, Heredia lived there, for example. And when I arrived, Zenén was already there making his designs: an intelligent, intrepid boy, a lover of the profession. And I was also pure passion with the theater and with puppets. "


After working and learning for years with René Fernández, an experience they take on as a privilege, in 1994, in the midst of the Crisis of the rafters Rubén and Zenén, they had the idea of creating a new group. It was on one of the most critical days of that summer, at the conclusion of a show at the Sauto Theater that they had put on precisely to distract the children who every day saw entire families leave the Matanzas coast at times in rudimentary rafts in pursuit of reaching The USA.

“ Teatro de las Estaciones is the vibration of the delivery of love and respect towards Cuban culture, to Dora Alonso, from Matanzas, to Martí, from all over Cuba and the world, to Lorca, who is one of our authors, to Norge Espinosa, which is a contemporary. In our Company we have found the vibrations we need to live, ”says Rubén Darío.

Sala Pepe Camejo, headquarters of the theater of the Seasons.

The girl who waters the basil ,  Pelusín and the birds ,  The toy box ,  The bronze virgin ,  Federico at night ,  Alicia in search of the white rabbit ,  On Mount Carulé ... are some of the pieces directed by Rubén Darío with the scenographic, costume and lighting design by Zenén Calero, who is also the creator of hundreds of puppets that have come to life on stage and on other media such as audivisual, and more recently with the incursion into the wonderful technique of stop motion. The dolls created by Zenén have come to clutter their storage spaces, but when they least imagine it they leave the corner and rise again.

"Fluff and the birds", 2001.

The option of moving to the Cuban capital or emigrating to another country has never been in the plans of this couple, who has not lacked offers for a change of this magnitude. Practical and sentimental motivations have sustained that permanence in the so-called City of Bridges , a few kilometers from Varadero, one of the most famous spas in the world.

"We have created a world based on our artistic interest and we have had a lot of support from the Matanzas government," says Zenén, who from the 90s until today has grown his previously narrow workshop and dollhouse, which was reached by a narrow staircase. “Today we have a space that is the Pelusín del Monte Cultural Center that I direct and that houses the Teatro de las Estaciones company , directed by Rubén, and where I have used the teachings of René Fernández, not only artistic direction, but of the general direction of an institution. I feel like I do things that I saw him do. And in that space we have the possibility to do everything. "

"The pink shoes", 2007.

“If there is something that unites Zenén and me in addition to the passion for theater and life, it is love for this country. Cuba is not a perfect country, none are, but it is our country. We have had the privilege of having been to the greatest festivals in the world: in New York, in Charleville-Mézières, in Toulouse, in Genoa. And at the end Zenén and I look at each other and one says: what's wrong with you? And the other: I have a desire to go to Cuba now ... That cannot be explained, that is not narrated, it is either available or not. "

In August 2021, the program Vivir del tale , one of the most popular and one of the few critics of Cuban social and economic reality on TV , brought to the screen an edition titled Puppeteers. The performance of Rubén Darío Salazar and the dolls created by Zenén Calero plus an incisive script added spice to the much-liked television show. On the subject he wrote in Cubaescenathe critic Norge Espinosa: “The traditional laughter, with overtones of social satire, that has characterized the space, was combined with the puppets that reproduced the main characters of the space so that the presence of the animated figure was not a footnote or a passing addition. Through these doubles, glove puppets, a criticism leaked to that type of civil servant who distrusts art as a resource to remove stagnant ideas, and who sees in humor a mirror that only reveals his own suspicions ”.



Rubén assures that if something has happened to them, it is that they have never been prejudiced against anything, neither in life nor in art and that is why they have worked with artists from opera, popular music, cinema or television. However, prejudices have haunted them, to a greater or lesser extent.

Since you were a couple, have you felt rejection or social pressure in Cuba for your sexual preferences or for your relationship?

Rubén Darío Salazar: Nothing is so new new, nor so old old. Prejudices, that attitude of confusion, blindness, hallucination with what is not the norm, ends up putting an attitude on guardto those indicated or simply in the position of enjoying what the other suffers, since there is no guilt other than being consistent with feelings, which do not know gender, or any of those absurd definitions with which many humans go through life cataloging what they know or think they know and what they do not know. At the age of 25, the personality is already formed. I met Zenén in the middle of a theater company. That they saw us together was normal, so I never felt rejection. The occasional suspicious look that never took my sleep, but nothing else, that's the truth.

Zenén Calero Medina: Rubén was in his twenties and was, is, very charismatic, like me at thirty-something he was very introverted. Neither he nor I like the unnecessary affectation, because we have never gone through life trying to attack anyone with what we feel, rather we have shared that love with friends, colleagues, family ... people without prejudice, who He looks us in the eye, not at the crotch, which is otherwise a very personal place. Some people in my family did look at us badly, add to that racial prejudice, that backwardness. Others do not. We have always been respectful with others, with ourselves. We have many things in common, the main one: having a frank behavior with everyone. We have nothing to hide, yes a lot to give.

Rubén and Zenén.

How did they cope with sexual discrimination in childhood and adolescence?

Rubén Darío Salazar: I was an artist since I was a child, and although that is a condition that does not define you sexually, since being sensitive is something that is for everyone, being an artist is always suspicious with respect to men, as strong trades have been suspicious for females and that doesn't mean anything either. It is hard for a child to be singled out or criticized. Now they call him bullying, but abuse, offense, humiliation for those who have challenged traditional male roles have always existed. My mother has always supported me in all my decisions, which made me grow with a well-placed self-esteem. He always required me to be polite, to get good grades, to read so that I would be smart. It is not that mothers are blind, but they really observe their children with their soul and expect from them much more than the dispositions to live, armed in other centuries. I continued being an artist in adolescence, and that is a very rebellious age when it is perceived that it is unfair to be looked down upon for liking poetry, painting, music, literature or ballet. I never looked down at any suggestion of offense. It must be that since I was born in the neighborhood of Los Hoyos, in Santiago de Cuba, and I come from a brave family,I don't have much to do with fear, even though I've always been short.


Zenén Calero Medina:My family was very macho. I was a different child and adolescent. I always tried to be accepted by my cousins and friends, by my family in general. Something in me was not like in other children. I liked animals, not being mistreated, painting, music, period movies. I made my world and it was never the same as anyone else's. I felt a lot of pain at that stage of my life. It is very hard to be censored in childhood and adolescence. Somehow I was a victim in the 70s of the parameterization, because at the age of 15 I was expelled from the Matanzas Provincial School of Art, without ever telling my mother the true reasons. It was difficult for me to understand him, as he was one of the best students in the fine arts specialty. Some years later, teachers of that time watching me grow up and become a creator,they apologized to me. That did not cure me of so much pain and injustice, but it made me see that some humans have shame on their faces and that is an honest, dignified condition, because anyone is wrong, it is life that has no turning back.

How to educate the new generations not only in tolerance, but in respect, acceptance and natural coexistence with differences in sexual identities, preferences or practices?

Rubén Darío Salazar: The task that arises is great, there are many years of mistrust, of terror of what is different. That fear regresses, hides. Too many people masked and frustrated by prejudice, when not accusing, implacable, radical with the issue of sexuality. Infants are not born with prejudices, we are the adults who educate that soul in hatred, in scorn, in abuse with the weakest or the different. Do not cry, do not speak finite, do not gesticulate, it is a whole decalogue to be a man and to be a woman, not to be human beings. There are parents who prefer delinquent children to homosexual ones. And that's where a path begins where there is hardly any space to dialogue, accept, which is different from tolerating or understanding. There is a lot of work ahead and we cannot leave the specialists or those responsible for educating alone in that.The family and the government also have their work there. You cannot build a country hiding identities to be accepted or functioning with the morality of the Middle Ages, when women were close to the witches and the Devil's artists. Life has shown that this is a fallacy, a way of discriminating and cutting off the soul from the brain. Too many twisted and unhappy people already exist on earth.


Zenén Calero Medina:I work with a lot of young people and I think they are less prejudiced than adults. Sometimes so much pressure on them has made them break the rules and go to the other extreme and that is also dangerous, because being ultramodern as many want to be, has a price. Better dialogue with them. It is what I do, try to show them how beautiful life is, that there is a lot of beauty to enjoy. Some listen to me and others do not, and they lose themselves in laziness, addiction or the most useless and superficial vanity. I trust young people, I like them and at the same time I try to make them better people, better creators, better children, brothers, parents… the matter is difficult, but I always bet on optimism. In that, Rubén and I are similar, although I seem more melancholic, he is really melancholic with a carapace of well-made props.

What message do you have for Cubans at this time of debate about the urgent need for a new Family Code ?

Rubén Darío Salazar: 35 years with Zenén has made me a better person and a better artist, I have not needed a family code that includes equal marriage and other rights to reach this conclusion. But the existence of a law that protects that right is an exercise in civilization, equality and respect for love.

Zenén Calero Medina: Perhaps this legal provision, the changes that are being pursued in the new Family Code, has surprised us a little older. It goes and the majority does not approve, that is not going to end my feelings, which cannot be regulated. It goes and yes, and we will have an inclusive country, at the height of human development and on the side of justice.


Rubén and Zenén carry their desires and dreams wherever they go, be it inside or outside of Cuba. "And with our children who are the puppets," they add. Many years ago in Sweden, where equal marriage was already possible, someone said to them: "Why don't you get married here?" And with the same speed that characterizes Rubén Darío when he speaks, like someone who is always in a hurry, he says when telling it as he should have said that time: “No, I want to get married in Cuba, when the family code that touches me Whoever he is, when minds open up and realize that love is above all ”. Zenén, next to him, nods with his good man's smile.

In 2020, Rubén Darío Salazar and Zenén Calero received the National Theater Award. The jury, made up of the Carlos Pérez Peña, Gerardo Fulleda León, Verónica Lynn and Carlos Díaz National Awards, and the designer and teacher Nieves Laferté, recognized that this “pair of scene creators has contributed to the theater for children and puppets in Cuba appreciable values regarding their artistic, investigative and teaching work ”.

A few months earlier they had taken on the challenge of reviving, almost from ruins, the room of the Guiñol Nacional de Cuba. Rubén was appointed as general director of that essential capital theater space and Zenén is there, side by side, redesigning and printing color and light to the site so that it stops being the dark and silent basement it has become in recent years and returns to be filled with puppets and joy.


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